The best way to find and stimulate the G spot is with your hands, and in order to stimulate it properly and lead to climax, you’ll need to learn some handy G spot fingering techniques. Building a repertoire of multiple techniques is ideal, as no two women will be exactly the same in what they like or prefer, and always make sure to listen to what her body is telling you regarding rhythm, method, and the end goal of total pleasure. Before trying any new G spot fingering techniques, make sure to trim and manicure your fingernails to ensure each technique will remain comfortable.
The two most popular and universal G spot fingering techniques that all partners should try are:
1. The “come here” motion – With your palm right side up, you’ll first use only your middle finger to locate her G spot. When aroused, the G spot should be pretty easy to find inside of the vagina, and once your middle finger is over it, you’ll want to curl it forward just slightly on the area in a sort of “come here” motion. What this G spot fingering technique allows you to do is place just the right amount of pressure onto the area as its being rubbed, and while you’ll want some pressure, make sure not to go too hard. Some women may prefer this technique done at varying pressures, which is why it’s so important that open communication is encouraged. As you start to feel her grow wetter, it’s time to pick up the pace, and this is a technique you can use to ride the G spot all the way to orgasm.
2. Little circles – Just as you’d stimulate the clitoris using a small circular motion, this works for the G spot as well. Because the G spot doesn’t have nearly as many nerve endings close to the surface as the clitoris, you’ll need a little more pressure, but this is found to be an excellent technique to use for women who are just embarking on their journey into G spot orgasms. Using that same middle finger, make small circles over and on top of the G spot starting slow, and working into a faster pace, and you should see success in not much time at all.
3. G spot massage – A G spot massage is something of a combination of the two aforementioned techniques, and this G spot fingering technique is done in a way that uses both back and forth pressure as well as circular pressure to create varying sensations. For this, start with the palm up “come here” method, and rather than just going back and forth with the finger, mix in some small circles each time you bring your finger back up again. This G spot fingering technique is particularly beneficial during the warming up of the area, and she can tell you what type of motion her body may be preferring as you go along.
Im 51 and have never had an orgasm.. Soooo close but never happens.. Im so fustrated, and sooo want to feel that feeling.
Im also a toy and lotion consultant, so its not from lack of trying. I’ve had many say ” Oh I can do it” Oh Ill be the one ….
Just never happens.. Ive been soooo overly excited when stimulating the clitoris and then nothing…
Signed
Hoping before I’m too old to have one…..
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